We all have imaginary conversations in our heads, right?

I have them constantly. I replay conversations that have already happened and think of all the things I should have said. And I rehearse future conversations with friends or acquaintances that I think will be hard. Like, “Here’s why I can’t come to your birthday dinner,”  etc.

But most of all, I make up confrontations between myself and strangers. The kind of angry, chest-poking interactions I wouldn’t even think of having with anyone I’m going to see again.  Read the rest of this entry »

In my quest to be one of those people – the successful ones – I’ve observed a couple of things that separate them from the other people:

1. They set limits and stick to them.
2. They fly carry-on. Read the rest of this entry »