In the past couple of years I’ve been into some self-help-y, self-discovery-ish stuff called “Transformation.”  If you know me,  you wouldn’t think it was very me.  I’m not a rainbows-and-butterflies-and-group-hugs type. But I’m attracted to the practical side of it: all about living in the moment, how what you resist pers– never mind, I’m getting…